Your Wedding, Your Way

"More than just a DJ — I help create a wedding experience that feels personal, joyful, and unforgettable."

The Experience

Every wedding I host is different — because it's designed entirely around you. From the moment your guests arrive to the final song of the evening, the day flows smoothly, naturally, and memorably. Here's how it all comes together:

Ceremony & Drinks Reception

  • Background music to set the tone as guests arrive
  • Seamless soundtrack for the ceremony (entrance, signing, exit)
  • Soft, joyful music during the drinks reception to keep the atmosphere relaxed

Wedding Breakfast & Icebreakers

  • Personalised Grand Entrance with fun introductions for your wedding party
  • Delivery of your Love Story — a heartfelt moment that often becomes a highlight
  • Icebreaker activities like Pearls of Wisdom cards and an optional wedding quiz
  • Toast announcements and seamless coordination with your suppliers

Evening Celebration

  • Expert DJing with seamless transitions between genres and eras
  • Floor-filling party sets tailored to your guests and your taste
  • Interactive elements like the Mr & Mrs Game, DJ Battle, and custom music choices

Why Choose Me?

Not sure what the difference is between a typical DJ and a Wedding Host? Here's a side-by-side breakdown.

Typical DJ Tony Winyard – Wedding Host
Plays music Curates the entire experience
Limited interaction Builds rapport with your guests
Uses the same script each time Every wedding is completely customised
Music only Music, Hosting, and Coordination
Minimal prep Multiple planning meetings and expert guidance
Untrained presenter Trained in public speaking, improv, and storytelling

Testimonials

★★★★★

"Tony absolutely made our day. The Love Story, the fun intros, the energy — our guests couldn't stop talking about it."

— Jessica & Luke
★★★★★

"We didn't want a typical DJ. Tony gave us a personalised, classy, and fun experience that felt totally 'us'."

— Amanda & Daniel
★★★★★

"From our first Zoom call, we felt like we were in safe hands. Tony helped us plan things we'd never even thought of."

What Is a Love Story?

Your Love Story is one of the most personal, joyful, and unexpected moments of your wedding day—and your guests won't see it coming.

I ask you both, separately, to tell me your side of the story—how you met, what made it "click", the awkward firsts, the beautiful messes, and those moments you've never shared with anyone else. You don't see each other's answers, so it becomes a surprise for everyone on the day.

Then, I take what you've told me and craft it into a fun, heartwarming tale—full of laughter, emotion, and a few gentle surprises—which I share live on the day, just before your first dance.

Here's an example of a Love Story from a (completely fictional) couple in their 30s, so you can see the kind of magic we create together:

🎙️ The Love Story of Megan & Josh

It started, as many great romances do, with a dog, a bad coffee, and an online dating profile that listed "hiking" as a hobby (neither of them hike).

Megan had just moved to Bristol, bought a French Bulldog called Gary, and joined Bumble after three glasses of wine and a motivational speech from her housemate. Josh had swiped right on her because of Gary. Megan swiped right because Josh looked like he knew how to make a decent cup of tea. Reader: he did not.

Their first date was at a café where Josh ordered an oat flat white but forgot to ask for "oat", so Megan spent 20 minutes watching him pretend not to be lactose-intolerant. They laughed the entire time. Gary judged from under the table.

The second date involved bowling. Josh lost. Badly. Megan says he was a sore loser. Josh says he "let her win". Neither has let it go.

The moment it got serious? Possibly the time Josh looked after Gary when Megan had the flu and sent hourly photo updates captioned "Captain of the Couch Patrol" and "Guardian of the Lemsip". Or maybe when Megan drove three hours in the rain just to surprise him after his nan passed away. They both say it felt easy—and that's how they knew.

When Josh proposed, it was in their kitchen, with fairy lights strung up, a pizza in the oven, and Gary wearing a bow tie. Megan didn't say yes straight away—because she was crying, laughing, and telling Josh off for leaving the ring next to the garlic bread.

Today, Megan says Josh is the only person who can calm her when she's spiralling and make her laugh when she wants to cry. Josh says Megan is his safe place—his person—and he'd marry her in a Tesco car park if that's what it took.

Thankfully, today's venue is slightly more romantic.

What Are Wedding Party Introductions?

Wedding Party Introductions are short, story-driven moments of pure joy, delivered just before the newlyweds make their Grand Entrance to the wedding breakfast. They're designed to shine a spotlight on the bridesmaids, groomsmen, and other key people who've helped the couple get to the altar with their sanity (mostly) intact.

But these aren't just names and titles rattled off like a school register. They're mini love letters, hilarious roasts (the Disney kind), and applause-worthy snapshots of each person's personality. Think of them as a carefully crafted blend of comedy, sentiment, and cheeky celebration—like the opening number in a feel-good West End musical. They warm up the room, break the ice, and get everyone smiling, laughing, and connecting.

When Are They Delivered?

Just before the couple's Grand Entrance into the wedding breakfast (though timings can be tailored). The idea is to lift the energy, engage the guests, and make everyone feel like part of something truly special before the food, the speeches, and the rest of the festivities unfold.

Why Do They Matter?

Most guests only know a handful of people. These intros spark connections. You hear "this one plays Dungeons & Dragons and loves karaoke" and suddenly you've got ten new people to bond with at the bar. They celebrate the unsung heroes of the day. And more than anything, they set the tone—joyful, relaxed, unforgettable.

How Music Is Used

Each wedding party member or duo is introduced by name with a custom, upbeat piece of music that kicks in the moment their name is revealed. Think of it like the opening credits of a film or when a footballer runs onto the pitch—fun, confident, and filled with energy.

The music is:

  • Pre-agreed with the couple (or sometimes with the wedding party themselves)
  • Personality-matched (nostalgic, cheeky, dramatic—whatever suits!)
  • A cue for applause, laughter, energy, and movement

This turns a potentially awkward "walk to your seat" into a full-blown character entrance.

Fictional Sample Introductions

Here's a taste of the magic. Imagine this scene unfolding at a real wedding…

The High-Energy Duo

Tone: Cheeky & fun Music: "Uptown Funk" – Bruno Mars

MC INTRO (spoken, music quiet or off):

"They've been friends since the great Year 9 science lab fire—don't ask. One of them can do the worm on demand, and the other once made an entire campsite believe she was a qualified yoga instructor… for four days. They've survived festivals, breakups, and one deeply unfortunate karaoke duet of 'Islands in the Stream'. They are chaos, charm, and certified dancefloor starters. Make some noise for the unstoppable duo…"

MUSIC CUE: (Uptown Funk hits, volume up)

[They burst in, high-fiving guests, shimmying their way to the top table. It's playful, theatrical, and instantly lifts the energy of the room.]

The Sentimental Solo

Tone: Heartfelt with humour Music: "This Will Be (An Everlasting Love)" – Natalie Cole

MC INTRO (spoken):

"Now, this one's been by the bride's side since their first shift at Topshop, where they bonded over a broken shoe display and a shared love of Percy Pigs. She's the calm in the chaos, the one who remembered to pack plasters, tissues, and yes—snacks for today. She'll cry at the speeches, dance like nobody's watching, and probably end up being adopted by at least two aunties before dessert. Please welcome the bride's right-hand woman, and one of the best humans you'll ever meet…"

MUSIC CUE: (Natalie Cole hits with a blast of brass)

[She enters smiling through happy tears, gets a standing ovation from her table, and air-hugs every guest along the way.]

The Reluctant Legend

Tone: Deadpan & playful Music: "Don't Stop Me Now" – Queen

MC INTRO (spoken):

"This next chap insisted he didn't want a big fuss. He also said that if I said anything embarrassing, he'd walk straight out the fire exit— …which is a shame, because he did once fall asleep on a rollercoaster. He's the groom's oldest friend, unofficial life coach, and has survived four lads' holidays with only minor scarring. He's also the only person in this room who brought an emergency tie. Just in case. Please give your warmest (and loudest) welcome to the man, the myth, the spreadsheet-loving legend…"

MUSIC CUE: (Queen explodes into action)

[He enters reluctantly but ends up grinning as his table erupts with laughter and applause. Someone hands him a pint mid-walk. Classic.]

Frequently Asked Questions

Can we give you a playlist?

Yes. You'll have access to your own music planning portal, where you can create Must Play, Play If Possible, and Do Not Play lists.

Do you take song requests on the night?

Absolutely. If you're happy for guests to request songs, I'll take them. If not, I'll stick to the plan we create together.

What happens if people don't dance?

With over 2,500 weddings of experience, I know how to read the room and adapt. We also use games and icebreakers to encourage involvement naturally.

Do you also act as the MC?

Yes, and much more. I act as your Wedding Host — welcoming guests, introducing speakers, guiding the flow, and keeping everything on track.

Where do you work?

I regularly perform across London, Hampshire, Berkshire, Surrey, Oxfordshire, and surrounding counties. I'm happy to travel further by arrangement.

Why Do You Write Custom Speech Introductions?

Most DJs or toastmasters will simply announce who's speaking next. "Now we'll hear from the groom..." And that's it.

But I do things a little differently.

So what's different?

Before the wedding, I ask the couple for a few key details about each speaker — just a paragraph or two about who they are, their relationship to the couple, a fond memory, what kind of tone they want, and whether they're feeling nervous. Then I write a short, personal introduction to set them up for success.

It's 15–20 seconds, tops. But it makes a huge impact.

These intros do more than just tell the room who's speaking — they build connection, set the emotional tone, ease nerves, and get the guests fully behind each speaker before they've said a word. They also help with transitions, flow and energy in the room.

Why do you ask for all this info before the day?

Because a brilliant introduction can:

  • Calm nerves for speakers who are anxious
  • Cue the audience to laugh, cheer, or give a warm welcome
  • Make the speech feel like part of the story of the day
  • Help emotional or shy speakers feel seen and supported
  • Set confident speakers up to absolutely knock it out of the park

And honestly? Because I care that everyone feels like they belong on that mic.

Do you encourage the bride to speak too?

Yes — 100%.

At most weddings, the speeches are almost exclusively men: the father of the bride, the groom, the best man. But some of the most moving, funny, memorable speeches I've ever heard have come from brides and bridesmaids. I always encourage it.

If the bride or anyone else wants to speak — and especially if it's not part of the "traditional" line-up — I'll make sure their moment feels just as significant, and that the room gives them the response they deserve.

Let's Talk About Your Wedding

Whether you're planning a grand celebration or something more intimate, I'd love to hear about your vision. The first Zoom call is informal, insightful, and genuinely helpful — most couples walk away with ideas they hadn't even considered.

"It's not a sales pitch — it's a planning session with someone who's done this hundreds of times."

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